Snow277 - 5:03 pm-16-11-1111 - Questions:

Snow277 (4:54 pm 16-11-1111)

Snow277 Q: cho tớ hỏi với "trải qua nhiều lễ từ giạm ngõ, ăn hỏi, đón dâu đến tơ hồng, hợp cẩn, lại mặt, và phải nộp cheo" dịch ntn?

OpenIDUser6344 : dạm .... n... gỏ

OpenIDUser6344 : trải qua = undergo

Honaku : nước ngoài không có nghi lễ này

Dipsokas : cái nay ở mỹ nó không có đầy đủ nên khó dịch lắm

Đại Ngố : dạm ngõ chắc là pre-engagement LOL

OpenIDUser6344 : Lại mặt" and "dạm ngõ" have almost the same definition. "Dạm ngõ" is a ceremony in Vietnamese's traditional marriage custom. "Mai mối",or "làm mối"(as "matchmaking" in Eng) is any process of matching two people for the purpose of marriage,"bà mối" is match-makers.M

OpenIDUser6344 : This ceremony to formalize the marriage between the two families.Typically the groom and his family "dạm ngõ" to introduce the relationship of the couple to the bride's family.After that 2 families will "authorize" the marriage.

Đại Ngố : ratify the marriage

OpenIDUser6344 : "Lại mặt" is far different from "Dạm ngõ". As said above, it happens after marriage. Normally after marriage the couple of newlyweds must come back to the wife's family for one or a few days to express their gratitude to the wife's family. They often bring some presents such as cock, alcohol, etc...